Help! I don't know what colors to pick!?

I too am getting married in a garden in spring 2010 :) I'm not having any color for the ceremony (well its in a rose garden so there are various colors or roses around us). All ivory roses and my bridesmaid and flower girl are wearing shades of white. You need to take charge and do whatever you want, if you don't someone else will. Whats your absolute favorite color that makes you feel happy and pretty? That's the color or colors you use. I do think you have an obligation to the bridemaids to not make them wear dresses they look horrible in (don't put a size 14 girl in a dress designed for a size 4). They wear whatever color you want them too though they don't get to complain about that especially if you're buying the dress.